Making Decisions From Abundance
We all face numerous decisions every day. While some are simple, others can feel impossible, especially when choosing between two good options that could be life-altering.
My good friend's daughter is currently facing such a decision: whether to serve an 18-month mission for our church. This decision is hard for her, as she has physical health needs requiring specialized care and some mental health concerns.
She's also worried about missing her family and certain events if she goes, and potentially missing out on incredible life-changing experiences if she stays.
It's common to make decisions from a scarcity mindset, aiming to avoid negative outcomes. Our brains are wired this way.
But what if we approached decisions from a mindset of abundance? Instead of trying to avoid a negative circumstance, focus on ensuring a positive one.
For example, instead of worrying about all the things you might miss out on with each option, focus on how each will provide opportunities and lead to growth. Then, choose between which opportunities you value more.
Another effective strategy is to ask yourself: If both options have great outcomes and I would be happy either way, which one would I choose?
Can you feel the shift in energy?
This principle applies to many decisions, such as:
Which school should I enroll my child in?
Where should we go for our family vacation?
Which college should I attend?
Should I accept a new job offer or stay in my current position?
Is it time to move to a new city or stay where I am?
Should I pursue further education or focus on advancing my career?
How should I invest my savings for future growth?
What hobbies or activities should I prioritize in my free time?
Should I start a new business venture or expand my current one?
The truth is, most choices come with both challenges and amazing opportunities.
By focusing on opportunities rather than potential challenges (some of which we just made up), we can make decisions that align with our values and desires, rather than our fears.
What are your thoughts on approaching decisions from abundance rather than scarcity? I'd love to hear your perspective.
