Our Unique Lenses Shape Our View

Our perception of the world is similar to wearing a pair of glasses that are permanently fixed to our heads.

These glasses have lenses that are crafted from our personality, upbringing, and lived experiences—both good and bad—and the interpretations we've given to these events.

No two people in the world have the same lenses because no two people have the same combination of personality and experiences.

Sometimes, this diversity can be challenging. It's frustrating when others don't see the world as we do. What seems obvious to us might be a stretch for someone else.

Are they delusional? How can their perspective be so different? Did they make it up?

The truth is, they aren't making it up; they're just viewing the world through their unique lenses.

Instead of being frustrated, we can see this diversity as an opportunity.

Diversity of thought and ideas adds richness to our world. Imagine if everyone thought and behaved just like us—it would be a pretty boring place!

With unique perspectives, the potential for collaboration is incredible!

We need everyone in our lives to help us gain a broader view, which means listening and learning from others. As the saying goes, we have two ears and one mouth for a reason.

Wouldn't it be amazing to approach life believing every person we meet has something to teach us?

Consider asking yourself, "I wonder what the world looks like through that person's lenses?"

• The cashier at the grocery store

• The elderly man asking for money on the corner

• The secretary at your kids' school

• Your sister-in-law

• Your "nosey" neighbor

• Each of your kids

• The leader of your opposing political platform

Once we let go of the idea that everyone should see the world as we do, we can learn from those with vastly different perspectives. They become our greatest teachers, not our adversaries.

We can stop feeling threatened by disagreement and respond with curiosity instead of judgment. As Steven R. Covey wisely said, "Seek first to understand, then to be understood."

This approach allows us to truly appreciate the diversity around us.

Let's keep viewing the world through our own lenses while respecting how others see things. Together, we can foster a more understanding and connected world.